Hi there, I’m at 23M and I’d like to hear your experience with trust, was it hard or easy? How long did it take? Did your partner do anything that flicked a switch and you suddenly trusted them or was it a slow process. Have you ever not been able to trust someone? I think I may have relationship anxiety and I just got out of a Relationship due to being controlling to not trigger my anxiety. I’d like to hear those of you that have relationship anxiety aswell and how you deal with it on the day to day.
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TL;DR I’d like to hear your experiences with trust and relationship anxiety and how you overcame or if you didn’t, I’d really appreciate it. Thanks
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Honestly, your issue isn’t trust, your issue is anxiety. You likely need to seek therapy (respectfully, there is no shame in needing therapy, I’ve had plenty myself) to snuff out the root cause of your anxiety issues. If you are anxious to the point of being controlling, then getting over that isn’t going to be something you can do on your own.